When does instilling a competitive spirit and a drive to succeed in a child to go far? Well, in Kyoto last Sunday, the line was definitely crossed- crossed into the point of no return when a 13 year old baseball player died of heat stroke and multiple organ failure after hours of disciplinary training from his coach.
As I was reading this article, it really struck me how hard the children of Japan are pushed to succeed. I see it daily in the pre-school where I work and it makes my stomach turn just a bit. Although I am trying very hard to sheppard the children in the direction that will enable to live up to the high expectations placed in their fragile shoulders, I have resolved to try and make it as fun as possible for them. They have so many years ahead to be watching the clock, long hours of overtime, and piling onto crowded trains full of business people whose heads are full of figures and numbers- why start so early?
It reminds me of the Jane Austin's Sense & Sensibility when Elinor is wishing Marianne was more "acquainted with the ways of the world" and colonel Brandon relates a tragic story of a young girl too quickly "acquainted with the ways of the world" and had her life ruined because of it.
Colonel Brandon: Your sister seems very happy.
Elinor Dashwood: Yes. Marianne does not approve of hiding her emotions. In fact, her romantic prejudices have the unfortunate tendency to set propriety at naught.
Colonel Brandon: She is wholly unspoilt.
Elinor Dashwood: Rather too unspoilt, in my view. The sooner she becomes acquainted with the ways of the world, the better.
Colonel Brandon: I knew a lady very like your sister - the same impulsive sweetness of temper - who was forced into, as you put it, a better acquaintance with the world. The result was only ruination and despair. Do not desire it, Miss Dashwood.
These children of Japan are wholly unspoilt- soon will come the day they are taught to hide their emotions, conform to strict social standards and feel the unbearable pressure of the work force. It is unfortunate these children are being pushed too hard too early.
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